Issue 17: Ruby Ryder Sheds The Light On Strap On Sex

Want to Bend Over Your Boyfriend?

According to Wikipedia, pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a mans anus with a strap-on dildo. The word pegging was popularized when it became the winning entry in a contest in Dan Savages Savage Love sex advice column, held after an observation was made that there was no common name for the act.

Ruby Ryder, creator of the site Pegging Paradise http://www.peggingparadise.com , is becoming known as The Pegging Queen on the internet and throughout Southern California BDSM circles, where she has taught classes on the practice of pegging. I recently met Ruby at a local munch, and we immediately connected because of our mutual interests in erotica writing and female dominance. She graciously agreed to be interviewed for FEMDOM Magazine.

Tell me a little about your website, Pegging Paradise?

I created Pegging Paradise in May of 2010. I have an active blog where I post erotic shorts, lovely pegging photos, interesting sex-related articles that I discover elsewhere on the internet, personal stories and of course, all kinds of discussions about everything to do with pegging.

I also offer erotic pegging story memberships. My subscriptions provide members with a story a month for an entire year. The levels of membership are called the 6 inch, 9 inch and I Want It All (which gives access to all my story archives). I am working on recording all my stories as MP3s, and Im really enjoying that endeavor. The first two I have completed are the free sample stories; so you can listen to those on my website. In the future I will have regular podcasts as well.

So thats basically what I offer at Pegging Paradise. But its much more than that. I have worked hard to make it a place where newbie peggers can come and find answers to all their questions. I have an extensive section for people who are new to pegging, a great FAQ section, and articles about how to convince your partner to peg you. All these areas of my website are by far the most popular. There are a lot of people exploring the concept of strap-on sex right now. And a lot of people who have tried it and have questions, too.

What inspired you to create your website?

I wanted a website to offer my erotica to the public. Dan Savage was instrumental in the creation of the word pegging ten years ago, but the word was just beginning to gain popularity. I decided it was the perfect time to grab an available domain and go for it. Also, to give Dan Savage some credit, on one of his podcasts he was telling a caller to embrace her unusual kinks, that the internet was made for finding others who share the same kink. For me, it was the right words at the right time. Thats exactly that I did, and Pegging Paradise is a large part of embracing my kinks.

How did you feel about wanting to use a strap-on on a man?

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Issue 17: Ruby Ryder Sheds The Light On Strap On Sex